Log Kya kahege!!!!

Hey,

 Do we really feel that what ever we do is always seen by others or observed by other.

NOOOOO

They will see & Observer but things doesn't even matter to them.

we always lost our self control & self discipline by just thinking that what others think..

Log kya kahenge: What will people say? The tormenting question often decides the course of our lives, or at least makes us live in fear all our lives, destroying countless dreams and desires along the way.

“I too want to travel alone, like you,” she said, “There is hardly a country that I haven’t been to, but I have always travelled with family.” What’s stopping you?” I asked her. “I am a married woman, you see. If I travel alone, what will people say?”

So, the fear of ‘what people will say’ had transformed an innocuous dream into a fantasy — never to be achieved in her lifetime unless she musters enough courage to ask the ‘people’ to get lost. But how many of us have the courage? Consciously, and even subconsciously, we always try to conform. The ‘people’ — society, neighbourhood, family — must not be offended in any way.

Do you worry a lot?

I must confess I do - although I try very hard not to and I think I'm getting a little better at putting worries aside far quicker than perhaps I did in the past. Certainly now that I've left my twenties behind I'm starting to realise that some things just really weren't getting so wound up about.

It's something I've been thinking about a lot recently as I continue to try to understand my place in the human race and just what is worth the anxiety and what isn't. I think we're all guilty of obsessing at time to time over things that we really shouldn't but there is often such a minefield of things to think about that it's hard to know where to direct our energy.

Today I've complied a little list of things I believe just aren't worth getting all het up about. I hope it helps if you're feeling a little under pressure by the general weight of life at the moment. Switch off that brain, let yourself be and remember that ... 

LIFE'S TOO SHORT

As you get older you finally start to understand that there really isn't anything you can do about the haters! Sometimes someone just might not understand where you're coming from or what you're about but there's really very little that you can do to change that and spending your energy worrying about it and trying to change to please others just isn't worth it. Be yourself  - be nice and be kind - but be you and just don't spend another thought feeling concerned about what someone may or may not think about you.

I once went to a conference where one of the speakers was talking about worry and pointed out how funny it was that every one of us in the room was probably busy worrying about what the other ones were thinking! Most of the time no-one's actually thinking anything negative about you as they're far too busy worrying about things themselves - that's the real irony of the whole worrying thing.